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Friday, 27 January 2017

Healthy Hair


I always found my hair on my hair brush, in my washroom, on my pillow, on the back of Sofa and on the Scarfs but not found good healthy hair on my head.  Shampoos, Conditioners, Hair Oils nothing worked for me. Whenever I browse for healthy hair I found blogs and reviews from many people related to washing hair with soap nut including some additional herbs like Gooseberry and SikaKai.

I tried only Soap nut wash at first that worked for me for 2 to 3 times but in the later couple of wash my hairs were too greasy and could not be tolerated anymore. Yes, I feel there was a mistake in the recipe I was following. For this wash, I added 5 Soap nut in my empty shampoo bottle, filled the bottle with water overnight and washed my hair in the morning but I did not change those 5 Soap nuts with new ones since I read on blogs that soap nuts are enough for many washes and somehow reusable.  I thought I might not boil the soap nut so I have greasy hair and but boiling also was unsuccessful. I left this and switched back to my shampoos for healthy hair.

Again I was pinched because of hair fall and jumped to browse for healthy hair, again I found Soap nut. But at this point, I tried other herbs (Gooseberry and Shikakai) with Soap nut according to many websites. But this time I made my own recipe including fenugreek seeds as I was pretty sure that these mild herbs cannot cause severe damage.  That worked for me though I do not see so much healthy hair on my head in the start yet I do not see hair anywhere including my brush, Pillow, scarfs, washroom.

The recipe is

Gooseberry 2 Tablespoon Powdered

Shikakai 2 Table Spoon Powdered

Soap nut 5 to 6 seed taken out

Fenugreek seed 2 Table Spoon Powdered






If you do not find powders form of these herbs you can ground them by yourself.  Mix all of the herbs and soak in water one night before the wash.  If you feel the mixture a little coarse ground again. 



Before taking shower apply this herbal mask on your scalp and hair very well cover the head and do other things reading, cooking, ironing, dish washing, laundry, Manicure, Pedicure for half an hour. Wash thoroughly; keep massaging your head while running water on the head.  You will definitely feel it a remedy of hair fall, a remedy for frizzy hair, a remedy for hair growth and whitening. Because gooseberry helps darkening, fenugreek full of proteins,  Shikakai detangles and fight dandruff.

Wednesday, 18 January 2017

Sisters Pinkie and Sunny





I was lying in my bed; my younger sister came to me and laid by my side her head on my shoulder. I was reading about a conversation between two sisters in a book. A sudden flash of wrecking thought came into my mind that I cannot stand if something bad happens to my sister or brother.

The conversation I read about was Sunny came to see Pinkie and told her that a guy has proposed her and wants to marry her. Pinkie said after listening she should consider the proposal as no one is there to take care of her. Sunny left and Pinkie dropped herself in miserable thoughts of possibilities of future ahead waiting for herself and for her sister.

You Know, when Pinkie and sunny were born their father was a minister in a country they had two brothers also. The people from the country loved their father because of his noble and honourable personality. Soon he became the king of the country, the king who loved to serve the poor and his mission was to raise the living standards for the poor people of his country.

His respect for the equality of rights for everyone was not liked by few people, they started to conspire against him and arrested him sentenced him to death.  But during his detention in his death cell, he advised Pinkie to live an honourable life and promote the concept of equality of rights.

Pinkie took words from her father, keep trying on the mission of his assassinated father. Same people did same to her, they tried suppressing her personality, tried to suppress the ideology from her father by keeping her in long time detention. She kept her moral high against every obstacle. Whatever the circumstances were she strived for the mission of her father. After the demise of her brothers, she left alone with her sister sunny. But she kept going on and lost her life too and became an example for the entire world leaving Sunny alone.


Though I feel sorry for everyone but the most for Sunny who lost Father, Brothers, sister and no one is left with her to cherish sweet memories being a family, family of the Daughter of the destiny

Monday, 16 January 2017

Women and Rights


A mother can teach a child what no other could do. This is actually a mother who teaches to utter the first word of life this is a mother who teaches to take the first step of life, how to sit, how to eat how to pay your gratitude and respect to others. Whatever the circumstances would be a mother will always think and struggle for a better personality of her child. How is it possible the words the responsibility to own, learnt from laps of a mother is ignored or maybe be neglected in his or her attitude toward opposite genders.  Especially when a mother has taught to respect a mother respect a sister respect a wife respect a neighbour and respect wherever a woman is. How a man can make mistake to suppress the rights of women. From whom women want to snatch their rights. From whom are they afraid? Are not these women themselves depriving by themselves by raising their male and female children on double standards?  A female child is always cautioned to behave well not to take over themselves in front of males but not the male child is ever taught to lower their gaze and guard their modesty.

If every single woman who have brought up her kids to respect and care for other’s rights then who is there to hold rights of a woman. On top of the rights, a woman needs education and training to aid when she raise her children, she raises them to understand respect and rights of others at their ends not to accept the opposite to give them. First tell a woman what actually their rights are then they can fight for it.


Books have been written rallies are being shown to give rights to women. The women who actually are fighting for rights of women are really deprived of freedom or their own rights.  The sufferers have normally oppressed ones they cannot speak or they cannot stand for their dignity but the one who is speaking already have enough freedom to voice their concepts which really do not benefit in any way to the oppressed class of the female gender.

Friday, 13 January 2017

Experience and reading books




Experience is not something to learn from book reading. To be an experienced must have to work, work till the depth is found clear and vivid. Books are always good to learn the knowledge but the implementation is far beyond the reading and learning a book. A lesson from books might be forgotten but not the experience especially in some exceptional situations. 

This is a very small incident I am sharing but gave me a lot of preventive measurements and precautions before doing anything.I remember during my graduate course of databases was offered as a compulsory subject. Though I do not like the subject of databases yes I never hated or reluctant to learn either. The subject went fine teacher taught wholeheartedly and class learnt including me also the subject of database became a prerequisite for many courses later offered during graduate. When the course of web development offered I chose a Dynamic web project of online Utility billing system. It was dynamic because it was a database driven web development project.

I started working with my two other project mates. Since the project is divided into two parts of web pages design and database design and then combine both of them to come with a complete operational solution. We designed web pages and core databases of the project of the online billing system. Let me explain for the one who does not have much idea of the database a web development. Working on this kind of project is something like icing bag used with nozzles of different size and designs.  Once you have filled an icing bag with icing of any colour and flavour you can make several designs by changing nozzle or variations of techniques for icing. Something is similar to a database. Once you have accurately filled data in the database with all of the necessary requirements, you can apply different techniques of query language to see data in different ways.




When we were done with our core designs of database and web pages we started to retrieve data from the database to web pages. This is almost the last phase of the project to connect database with web pages and web Forms. All of us member entered computer lab early in the morning around 8:00 AM and started our work to fetch data on web pages from the database. We used one technique but data was not appearing on the page then the second and so on changed the alternate methods but all was in vain. We were all worried and could not figure out our mistake, we managed to get help from our seniors and other class fellows but no one was able to work out. It was around 3:00 PM after trying hard each and every technique of database connectivity, I switched to work on to prepare a printable document of the project. While I was taking the snapshots of the database I came to know that there was no record fed into the database and no record was displaying on web pages because of it. You can also assume icing bag was not full of icing and we were trying to create different designs by changing the nozzles and different techniques.

It was because one of the members working on delete queries accidently removed all of the records from the database and we did not notice. We reworked on it submitted the project got good grades in the course. But from that day I became cautious and my other friends too at least for the rest of the graduation courses. From that day onward before doing anything I started taking all kind of precautionary measurements.  Though it was only a course project but gave us to change our attitude lesson also there were so many books we consulted about web development and database but we got a useful lesson by working on and by experience.

Sunday, 8 January 2017

Peri Peri Bites




Ingredients

Green Chillies 20

Chicken mince 500g

Mozzarella cheese 200g

Mayonnaise 2 Tablespoon

Salt 1 Tablespoon

Peri Peri Sauce 1 Table Spoon

Black Pepper 1 Teaspoon

Ginger Paste 1 Tablespoon

Garlic Paste 1 Tablespoon

1 Egg

Bread crumbs


Oil to fry

Recipe

Mix Cheese, Ginger and Garlic paste  in Mince and combine well.


Add Mayonnaise



Add peri peri sauce




Add Black Pepper



Now combine the mince mixture very well.

Seed out Chillies very well



Stuff the Chillies with Chicken mix.




Dip in beaten egg.



Coat breadcrumb on the stuffed Chillies.




Spread Cooking oil in a frying pan as I do not want to deep fry it so I pour a little less oil in the pan, Spread Chillies on the oil. 


 carefully turnaround Chillies when they turn Golden dish out and serve.





Friday, 6 January 2017

Kidney Bean Salad


This salad is prepared in tomato salad dressing and can be served anytime.

Ingredients
  • 2 Cups of Kidney Beans white
  • 2 medium size Apples
  • 2 medium Size Capsicum


Salad dressing
  • 2 medium size ripe Tomatoes
  • 1 teaspoon Salt
  • 1 teaspoon vinegar
  • 1 tablespoon Sugar
  • ½ teaspoon Black Pepper
  • 2 tablespoon Ketchup
  • 1 tablespoon Chili Garlic sauce



Recipe

Soak kidney beans for an hour and boil till soft.


Cut apple into small size square.


Cut capsicum in small size square.


Mix all of the ingredients in a bowl.



Pour salad dressing over the mixed bean, apple and capsicum and mix well again.



Dressing Recipe

Mix all of the ingredients Tomatoes, Salt, Vinegar, Sugar, Black Pepper, Ketchup, Chili Garlic sauce in a puree blender till turns a smooth paste. Heat the boil in a pan and pour the smooth paste over it and cook till thickens a little now cool it.


Thursday, 5 January 2017

A Saint in my dream


A Saint in my dream

Might be you would not believe in my words because I myself is confused for it what I experienced once. There are certain numbers of people who do not believe in God and then not in angels, Saints and Messengers from God. It also does not mean that if you believe in God you must be going to believe in the existence of Saints especially in the times we are taking our scientific breath. Our existence is a reality with no doubts nonetheless sometimes what we experience; we become convinced of the existence of supernatural, superhuman being and may be saints. 

The day my father came to pick me from college in the evening, my mother was also there with him. As I sat in the car my mother impatiently said that something is wrong with papa, he is not behaving normally. I started talking to him and I felt the same because he was stammering a little and was not pronouncing the words accurately. I also started worrying about the situation. When he started driving the car we hardly survived a few bad incidents or you may call them accidents but thanks to God that we reached home safely.

We insisted him all the way back to the home visit the doctor but he was not willing at any cost. After reaching home I called the doctor discussed everything in details he said that he is unable to figure it out without a complete checkup.  All of us somehow managed to take him to the doctor and he recommended few test to get the final finding of the illness. After coming home we gave him prescribed medicine and he slept peacefully. All of us went to our rooms so much worried about him. I was unable to sleep till late and anxiously praying for his good health. I remember in late hours of the night I fall asleep for a while and that nap was not more than fifteen minutes, when I got up I was so much scared of a dream. I saw in the dream that there was a hall filled with a huge number of people may be countless. There was a saint sitting on a terrace going to start a prayer for every single person present in the hall. I also gave a piece of paper written “Please pray for my father “to his caretaker. My worries for my father extended in perspective of my dream it was a hard time till we got his reports. He had a minor stroke which is curable, treatment started and he recovered completely.

But what was the dream about I really do not know? Was it just my unconscious stage of mind due to worries was there something supernatural or God really sends his angels and saint to heal poor people on earth.


Tuesday, 3 January 2017

Engagement Rings

Engagement Rings




I am confused and curious why an engagement, a formal agreement of getting married is a slave to a ring of metal. Historian says Egyptians and then Greeks are the father of tradition of wearing engagement rings.

 Metal for engagement should be costly one like Platinum, Palladium, Gold or Silver and some might be trying to find from out of this world as well. the story of an engagement ring is not a onetime story; it is an epic in series include the metal, the precious or semi-precious stone, the Size, the Color of metal and stones and the most important one is about the choice of the one whom you are going to bound in agreement.

However Rhodium appears to be most expensive and dream of everyone but you can also trust Platinum, Rhodium, Gold, Palladium, Titanium, Ruthenium, Iridium, Osmium, Indium and Silver in making the strong bond of engagement.  There is no evidence found that specific metal worked in certain conditions very well and the couple lived happily ever after. But yes all of them have different characteristics. If one is soft then other is brittle and hard. One is bright silver white then other is yellow in shines or grey-white. Selection of the metal is totally matter or finance and choice.



It is not the metal that keeps the couple in strong bond but some claims are there that gemstones in jewellery may have an impact on the personality of individuals and so the personal dealings and relationships. Most brilliant stones for engagement rings are Diamond, Ruby, Sapphire and Emerald. If a little element of superstitious is part of your life you can consult someone which stone is going to suit you for keeping you happy in a relationship. You can choose a combination of the stones for your relationship ring. Single stone mounted in the ring equally work.  Gemstones are available on earth crust in different colours and sizes and shape dependent on the stone expert in cutting and then jeweller.



After choosing Metal and stones then comes the stage of the size which is not difficult or something to ponder upon. 



You can consult Designer and Expert for complex jewel of your life



Monday, 2 January 2017

Nursery Class





Nursery Class

 I could recall my nursery class, on behalf of few things I remember but no one believes that how is it possible to remember memories of early childhood.

The first thing I daily asked my father was about the car whenever he came to pick me from school I would ask him are you coming on his car or the one from office. My concern was if he is on his car he might stay with us for lunch but not in the case of official one.

The other thing which is very hurting is the day when the teacher asked me to finish my lunch in the break time. The story is my governess at school use to feed me my lunch which I never finished. I always bring some lunch back to home. One day class teacher announced that no kid will go to governess for lunch, yet instead, everyone would be finishing own. I started eating bite by bite and soon I came to know that I am eating it myself and can never finish it. So I started crying loudly. And also before taking lunch to school I was taking my feeder full of milk and I could have taken that regularly if me fellows would not have teased me.

Another thing I recall was the day when my parents brought me a two piece suite of corduroy in brown colour with silver buttons. When my mother wore me that suit my pants were too loose to fit on my waist. Somehow everyone at home managed to fix that around my waist. In that struggle, I got late from school and latecomers had to sit a little away from the on time students and I was too embarrassed on that day of my school.

One more thing to tell is the day I lost my rubber in my classroom and noticed when I started my homework. I simply declared I would only finish my work when I get my rubber. So I went to market with my uncle and bought like the lost one. But the hilarious part of the story is when I entered home I saw few pencil lines on walls by my younger brothers. I started rubbing those lines till my uncle came after parking the car and I had lost half of my rubber in size.

I want to know if anyone else has something stupid and funny like this, share in comments.

Einstein and Music


Einstein and Music


Walter Issacson wrote in his book Einstein His Life and Universe:


His mother, an accomplished pianist, also gave him a gift at around the same time, one that likewise would last throughout his life. She arranged for him to take violin lessons. At first he chafed at the mechanical discipline of the instruction. But after being exposed to Mozart’s sonatas, music became both magical and emotional to him. “I believe that love is a better teacher than a sense of duty,” he said, “at least for me.”Soon he was playing Mozart duets, with his mother accompanying him on the piano."

Later on different public occasions, he played music especially Mozart.



















Einstein A Father


Einstein

A Father


The first wife of Einstein, Mileva Mari and mother of his two sons and Einstein separated and divorced. Though Mileva had custody of their children. No one can deny relationship and care of Einstein being a father. He guide, teach and play whenever together with his sons.


When Einstein spent time making little toys for his baby son, such as a cable car constructed from match boxes and string.



Hans Albert himself told when he was an adult.


Hans Albert recalled his memory with his father



Tanner a student told about a visit



Einstein also expressed his delight that his son has the interest in geometry and wrote him.




Einstein wrote to his sons for their personal Hygiene.



Einstein showed his care for his son Hans Albert.


Einstein sent Mari a note of thanks: 



He wrote Elsa.



Eduard asked why he was so famous; He gave a beautiful example to elaborate to his child.



His Younger son Eduard was a patient of mental illness and he was worried about him very much.